One needs to be mindful of their intention to sin. Oral stimulation can be part of a moral, healthy and loving sexuality within marriage. The essential things to examine are your intentions and the circumstances. The only real prohibitions on this point are: As mentioned above, the importance of language cannot be downplayed.
The preceding information may be both new and surprising to married couples.
Christian Oral Sex: Is it moral?
If you and your spouse agree down the line, you have found what can be called your sexual garden. Loving stimulation is not at all prohibited by the Church, in fact, we could argue that it is virtually required that our lovemaking within marriage provides loving pleasure to our spouse, male and female. So, if either of these aspects are taken out of the sexual act intentionally, then sex is reduced to something it was not intended for and it can then be sinful even within marriage. Nicholas Halligan, author of the series, The Ministry of the Celebration of the Sacramentscomments: This is not simply a way to restrict our natural sexual impulses, but rather to use them for what they were properly intended, namely for procreation of children and to build unity between husband and wife.